[side note: I was going to do much more editing and research for this post. But for the sake of time (and for the sake of not letting this turn into a 20 page essay) I'm just going to post it.. and post updates and new thoughts in later posts...]
Many of us (Christian, or not) have heard many times people say things like, “There is a reason and purpose behind everything.” Or, especially in hard times, people may say that there is a purpose behind it, though maybe we just don’t see it. You will grow/learn from it…. There must be a reason behind this…. I just need to trust that there is a bigger purpose here. I just talked to a friend, who was going to marriage counseling. They told him,
Out of all of the people in the world,
God chose you specifically to be with her!
That’s a pretty satisfying statement right there. But if God chose that… what else did he choose? Where do you draw the line between what we choose and what God chooses/purposes? Why am married to this woman? Why did this person die? Why did I get into this car accident? Why did I go to this university? Why am I sitting next to this polka dotted pillow at the Coffee Plantation? A lot of Christians would explain many of these situations (ok maybe not the polka dotted pillow one) as being something purposed by God, that he has a plan it it that we just may not see at the time. While I would never say this is not ever the case, I definitely don’t think it is always the case that God purposes all these things in our lives, and think that it even can be detrimental to do this.
Where the idea may come from
I think this idea comes from (for Christians) the idea that God is all powerful, sovereign, and from various passages like these:
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
O LORD… you know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar… you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.
Psalm 139
If you know elsewhere where this idea may come from post below!
It is definitely true that there were a lot of instances in the Bible where things happen for a reason and where, even, Biblical people labeled things as being from God. Now, to a certain extent, if God is all powerful and does sustain ALL, then in a certain sense, he is the cause of… everything. But did he purpose everything? I don’t think so. I think it is skewed to say everything has a purpose; and possibly even detrimental to have that view. Why?
(1) It’s not Biblical
For starters, a good reason not to believe something is if it’s simply not true. While God does have much purpose and say in many instances in the Bible, I think, overwhelmingly, God gives man the ability and even responsibility to make choices, and take chances. One of the first charges to man is to “rule and subdue the earth.” And throughout the Biblical story, humanity makes decisions that have drastic implications. People kill one another, rape others, have affairs and children that completely change the course of humanity. In many instances God makes a decision to do something, and because people simply ask him to do something different… he does. He changes his mind and actions because of our choice. Yes there are some arguments on the other side to say that God does intricately involve himself in our lives. I won’t say nothing happens for a reason. That wouldn’t be biblical. But I at least don’t see Biblical advocacy to have and hold this perspective on a daily and practical basis.. to look for God to say something. To wait until he does. Yes to seek him, but not to continually search for some whisper in the breeze or a feeling. More could be said on that but I’ll leave it there. St. John of the Cross has some great sayings about this too.
(2) It Can Cause Disappointment and False Hope
If one is to assume that God has a purpose behind everything this idea is very optimistic and can cheer one up. But over time what could happen? One could try to figure out what the purpose in something was, and be left extremely disappointed and frustrated when they don’t find one.
(3) It Provokes Laziness
If we assume (and pretty selfishly so) that God has a purpose for us in everything, and has a specific direction for every choice we make, we limit our choice and responsibility. We can start looking for answers, and wait in fear that we may make the wrong decision, until God gives us one. Get into that habit of thinking and you could become a pretty lethargic person.
Side note
Not to say that we should start making decisions right and left without seeking guidance. If we believe in the God of the Bible, than we should be people who do seek his guidance before all else. I always think of Isaiah when I think of this. God often says in the prophets things like, “If only you would have sought my counsel!”
Then they shall be dismayed and ashamed because of Cush their hope and of Egypt their boast.
Is 20:5
Ah, stubborn children,” declares the LORD, “who carry out a plan, but not mine, and who make an alliance, but not of my Spirit… who set out to go down to Egype, without asking for my direction, to take refuge in the protection of Pharoah and sto seek shelter in the shadow of Egypt! Therefore shall the protection of Pharaoh turn to your shame… everyone comes to shame through a people that cannot profit them, that brings neither help nor profit, but shame and disgrace…. In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quiteness and in trust shall be your strength.
30:2
Woe to vthose who go down to Egypt for help and rely on horses, who wtrust in chariots because they are many and in horsemen because they are very strong, but do not look to the Holy One of Israel or consult the LORD!
Is 31:1
I think there is a definite balance between taking responsibility, being a human, and making choices, and (as Christians) asking God for direction.
(4) It’s Self Centered
I think that’s self explanatory…
Free will in the Bible
I don’t think everything has a specific purpose, because God throughout the Bible gives humanity choices, and he even changes his actions depending on their choice. He charges them to fill the earth and subdue it. He changes his mind because of the plead of the people. He gives the people conditional consequences… dependent on their action. I also think it just is not logical to say that everything has a purpose. In a certain sense, I think, you could say that everything has a purpose in that it points to God (or something like that). Or that God can work everything for the good. But that is very different than saying that everything has a purpose.
Liberation and Freedom
So what’s the purpose in saying all this? It is unbelievably liberating to understand that God made people to make choices, and not get hung up on either sides—that either we should make all our decisions on our own on a whim, or that we should just sit and wait for God to direct every single step. I think there’s something good in the idea that all (every single thing) things don’t have a purpose; that we decide our destiny.
I think this can also be applied to things like bad habits, sin, struggles etc. It seems like a lot of us act as though our struggles are something we can do nothing about, as if God is plaguing us with it to teach us something. And hey, that may be the case; I suppose it did happen in the Bible. But on the other hand, it seems as though God more so tells the people to… do something, to change things, to stop sitting in their sin and listen to him, to remove the bad influences of others, to burn idols.
Much more thought to be done on this. I’m sure I’ll post some recaps/updates later. Also.. I did write this a couple months ago, and since then found this interesting related post by Donald Miller (read here). In the meantime here are some quotes from GK:
All Christianity concentrates on the man at the cross-roads. The vast and shallow philosophies, the huge syntheses of humbug, all talk about ages and evolution and ultimate developments. The true philosophy is concerned with the instant. Will a man take this road or that? –that is the only thing to think about, if you enjoy thinking.
GK Chesterton – Orthodoxy
He did not see that it only covered patterns and not pictures; processes and not stories. I asked him whether he thought that Mr. Smith of Golder’s Green got better or worse or remained exactly the same between the age of thirty and forty. It then seemed to dawn on him that it would rather depend on Mr. Smith; and how he chose to go on. It had never occurred to him that it might depend on how mankind chose to go on; and that its course
was not a straight line or an upward or downward curve, but a track like that of a man across a valley, going where he liked and stopping where he chose, going into a church or falling down in a ditch. The life of man is a story; an adventure story; and in our vision the same is true even of the story of God.
GK Chesterton – The Everlasting Man